Love is infinite. And it will take you all your life to know what it is. It’s not about finding it’s definition. It’s about making your own definition and it’s not a definition you can write down and share with the world. The only way to tell people or share with them what you think love is is to show them. Love is differently defined for each and everybody uniquely. Just like everyone’s heaven is different. There are different things that make different people happy in a different way.
Facebook has been annoying lately. It is the deep and dark soul of the ever obsessive society. People are judgmental, dumb as fuck, and ignorant. Should be changed to Fakebook because it’s just a place where people you dislike are on your friends list. Its where people show off things to pretend to be something else. It’s where people say things to try and be someone else.
What’s so wrong about people marrying young? So what, it’s their relationship why do you care? Do you doubt their relationship? And so what if they probably will get a divorce. At some point they felt they loved each other and saw one another as worthy enough to marry. Just because young people are recognized as NAIVE it doesn’t mean that every decision they make will be. There are actually couples who marry young, live long, and love one another till death. What has humans come to? They’ve lost hope in love and all they do is judge one another. WHY should it matter so much for people who want to marry at a young age? So what if it’s a mistake, life is full of billions of mistakes and what we do is learn from it. Things are learned best when it is through experience not advice.
Love is love! Let people be! Even if they have mistaken, there is no need for “I told you so’s” and “I knew it’s” for that person has experienced more life than you! They have learned one more thing that you have not learned! They have made a mistake that many made but they have learned something different from you! Everyone’s true life goal is to find a soul mate. Whatever country, whatever ethnicity, whatever culture, whatever financial status, whatever anything… We all look for someone to confide in and to love and love endlessly.
I may sound absolutely, ridiculously corny… But at least I can speak my mind and deviate from societal norms and be proud of it. I would rather people laugh at the real me than be a fake person they all like.
And I realize that happily ever afters don’t exist… And I realize that prince charming doesn’t exist and he never will. And I realize that I will always be disappointed. And I realize that I should have left after the first time. And I realize that I should love myself before anyone else. Good luck to you because I just wasn’t the person for you.
Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.
Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.
Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.
Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.
Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.
Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.
On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.
Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.
Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.
Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.
Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.
Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.
Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.
I did what I did and I said what I said. I can’t take my actions back and I don’t regret it. You hate me because of what I believe and that’s fine. At least I know I’m hated because I stayed true to my morals where you have none. THANKYA! ;D
“A few simple tips:
1. Don’t promise when you’re happy.
2. Don’t reply when you’re angry.
3. Don’t decide when you’re sad.
We all fail to follow these when we let our emotions take over.”—Shong Moua (via emmiesong)